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Article written by Dr S H Wong of M Y Dance Club, Singapore - Jul 97.....
SO YOU WANT
TO BE A COMPETITIVE DANCER........ The Three Phases of Competitive Dancing Dancing
as a social activity is fun,devoid of quarrels and squabbles.It is a very relaxed
form of exercise for both young and old.It is part of the social graces which
we picked up as we moved around the social milieu.
It is a joy to be able to dance with complete abandon and without any restrictions.
Things change the moment we choose to be competitive dancers.There are THREE
PHASES which most competitive dancers go through if they allow themselves
to get carried away by the competitive fervour.
PHASE ONE
PHASE
ONE is a period of great enthusiasm. The feverish preparation for the
competition and total commitment to the teacher and his dance school are the
classic hallmarks. It is what I term the ADDICTIVE PHASE. This is characterised
by fanatical idolatory of the dance instructor and the immoderate devotion to
the dance school.
This is also an INTOXICATING PHASE of euphoria. Being a valued competitor brings
added glamour and fame, one cut above the rest of the dancers. This gives rise
to a feeling of snobbery and arrogance which is further reinforced by the instructor
who is always full of praises and compliments for his own students. This is
purely flattery.
The student is now a warrior who can be called upon by his instructor to wage
battle on the dance floor and to bring fame and glory to the school. His total
and undivided devotion to his teacher and to his dancing school is almost fanatical.
This
phase is marked by intense rivalry and it is also the most destructive and divisive
phase in the career of a competitor.
This is made worse by belligerent teachers who advocate and stronlgy believe
that a dance competition is like a battle-field. To cite the worse from dance
teachers: You must win and you must not let your teachers down. Treat
the other competitors like your arch enemies. Do not converse with them. They
must be destroyed. They must be vanquished at all costs. They must not be allowed
to triumph over you. Go in and demolish them !
As a result of cumulative pressure and high expectations, the natural joy of
dancing soon becomes utter misery. Dancing degenerates into pure boredom. This
soon gives rise to quarrels and differences between the couple.
PHASE ONE
is also characterised by extravagance in endless dance lessons,the purchase
of dancing paraphernalia like shoes,gowns and tail-coats. The couple is oblivious
to what is actually going on. The thought of entering a competition is so overwhelming
that the passion and the thirst for the excitement is unquenchable.
PHASE ONE competitors are also very prone to injury and casualty. Sometimes,
they are so devastated by the daunting experience that they hang up their shoes
after one bitter competition.They simply could not take the stress and strain.
They then return to their social dancing club.
The undaunted and the more aggressive competitors enter into PHASE TWO of competitive
dancing after their initial brush with battle scars and undeterred by the pain
and agony of wounds inflicted on them in PHASE ONE. It is quite likely that
these competitors have managed to achieve encouraging results in the competitions.
PHASE TWO
PHASE TWO is a period of disillusion and bitter disappointment. It is also
characterised by depression and disenchantment.The idolatry and dedication begin
to wear off slowly. The commitment to the school diminishes gradually. The separation
from the umbilical cord commences. Disagreement with the teacher creeps in.
Loyalty becomes divided and there is a subtle detachment from the teacher. His
words are no longer the gospel truth. The novice student begins to drift to
greener pastures.
This is also the SEARCHING PHASE . Many good competitors are head-hunted and
many good teachers become heavily booked. Teacher-hopping becomes rampant and
the competitors start playing musical chair from school to school. These changes
are inevitable as the competitors themselves become more exposed to international
competitions.
It is also an eye-opening phase. The competitors are now more aware of other
teaching techniques. They are now better informed and more experienced and discerning.
Their knowledge of ballroom dancing also increases and they have access to many
good teaching and demonstration tapes. They begin to discover many things themselves.
This is also the CHANGING PHASE.Many competitors move around, frantically hunting
for the ideal teacher to improve their competitive edge. This is also a phase
of greater animosity and antagonism. As students drift to other teachers and
schools,animosity grows. Inter-school rivalry develops and becomes intensified.
This is also a sad period as competition results become affected. Winning a
competition becomes the most important criterion to judge a good dance teacher.
The dance floor becomes a battle by proxy. The competitors are just pawns.
At this stage,the students can only take part in certain competitions highly
recommended and approved by the teacher for his own selfish reasons,one of which
is certainly a higher chance of winning. All these stresses and strains cause
cracks and fractures in the couples relationship. Squabbles and petty
misunderstandings give rise to outbursts on the dance floor and rancorous exchanges
in bed, if they are married.
It is the most painful period for a competitive couple, each blaming the other
for the poor performance or disappointing results on the dance floor. It is
the beginning of a rift in the dancing partnership. Sometimes, the quarrels
can be so intense that the couple decides to split ( married couples included.)
A new partnership is formed and this new relationship also goes through the
same trials and tribulations. Changing
partners is like changing clothes. Like fashion,it catches on quite quickly
round the world ! This sort of human drama can be seen anywhere. Blackpool,
the Mecca of Ballroom Dancing of the World, is a glaring example.
Every year, the battle to become the worlds best dancers gets more ruthless
and more heated.Partners are sorted and exchanged to get the best fighting combination
and the cutting edge to be included in the worlds best dancers. This is
a tragic result of competitive dancing where the pursuit for excellence and
the thirst for glory and fame can have dire consequences to an otherwise beautiful
and loving partnership.
PHASE TWO
is what I term a DISASTROUS PHASE. PHASE THREE is a period of consolidation
and maturity.It is characterised by self-control,magnanimity and a better understanding
of the politics of competitions. Winning ceases to be an obsession. To participate
in a competition becomes an enjoyment and the couple dances happily and freely.
Some couples,when they reach PHASE THREE,retire gracefully. Many turn professional
and become teachers. Others continue to compete, but in a more relaxed mood.They
become less intense, less combatant and less belligerent.
PHASE THREE
PHASE THREE couples are now more independent. They may or may not be attached
to any particular school or subscribe to any fixed philosophy.They are free
to wander and seek the teachers of their choice. They have no fanatical attachment
to any particular teacher or blind loyalty to any dancing school. In short,
they have matured and become autonomous.
The most rewarding thing about PHASE THREE couples is the fact that the partnership
is still intact. They have weathered through the storms and realised that it
is utterly stupid to break a relationship just for the sake of dancing. They
are now more prudent, sensitive and understanding.
They may or may not achieve any results on the dance floor, but they can still
hold their heads high with pride and confidence, knowing very well that their
partnership is still going strong despite all the furore PHASE THREE couples
are stable couples with at least five years of competitive dancing experience.
They can still have sporadic hiccups in their relationship but these little
cracks are quickly detected and speedily healed. They no longer allow dancing
to affect their partnership and they strive to achieve good ratings without
sacrificing too much of themselves.
So,are you
prepared to go through these THREE PHASES of Competitive Dancing ? If you are
not prepared,hang up your dancing shoes and head for the nearest pub or disco.
Forget about competition. You will not regret it. On the other hand,not all
competitors go through all these phases.
Some sail through the competitions without any mishaps and they still maintain
their lovey-dovey partnership.They endure and they perserve.They keep their
partnership intact.They work hard and achieve good results. Kudos to all of
them ! So, do you still want to compete ..........? Happy Dancing and Good Luck
!
Last
updated: 1 Aug 97.
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